Inhibitions of a bikini wearing “Mom body”….πŸ‘™πŸ’„πŸ‘’πŸ³πŸ– #motherhood, #fashion, #love, #life

Being an Indian, wearing bikini on pools & beaches is still a taboo.! We  (Indians) still go on beach vacations and look for white skinned bikini wearing ladies …Men for obvious reasons & for ladies; they take them as the next level of our holiday goals!!

Our Indian men are still not comfortable entirely in having their moms, wife’s, sisters around them in this wonderful piece of clothing. Its still the “sexy” thing for them…

Am fortunate to not have a husband or a brother or a father like that!! Thank Goodness!! πŸ’• But the above is not the point am trying to make through this post. My reason of writing this post is to entirely help & elevate all the co-moms here…who struggle to come back to shape after having a baby and still want to wear her bikini !! Am here to push them to let down her inhibitions and completely love herself and her body after delivering the miracle of their lives…πŸ‘Άβ€

In the pictures am on my holiday in Thailand, Phuket with my husband & baby (baby then 1 yr 2 months old,  is sleeping, great!)….where I dared to wore the bikini with not being in the perfect bikini shape….I loved my MoM shaped body and just wanted to enjoy and relax and have some fun!!

This bikini I wore in various ways and pictures will show them to you for inspiration. 

1. I wore it with a crochet shift dress on top of it. Statement shades increase the glamour quotient #rayban 

2. My other look was with wearing a flowery float printed kaftan over this.. Add some chunky jewelry to complete the look..#accessorize neckpiece #guess shades #monsoon kaftan 

3. I always promote hair buns for we MoMs

You can create your very own look and be fashion ahead..

So bring out your favourite bikini from the closet and flaunt your perfect or NoT so perfect mommy body! Who cares…??!!

Enjoy the sun ladies..! Be Inspired!!

Love,

Sujata πŸ’•

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Life of Fashionista Mother! πŸ’ž #fashion Β #motherhood #love #life

I started writing blogs because of my 2.5 year old son & my love for fashion. They are my reasons. While I would put him to sleep daily night singing lullabies I would often think what after this. ..and ended up on social networking sites just browsing crap.

He generally dozes off by 10ish and I can’t sleep before 11.30 ( old habits die hard) !!…So springed the idea of writing something in this “ME” time…My journey began with Google, looking for apt answers for my questions…

– What are blogs ? (Complete world is either busy writing or reading one)

– How are they written? (Since I left creative writing ever since left school)

– Who reads them? (I never did earlier if not promoted by my friends, until I got my own blog started)

Finally I gathered myself and wrote something about that crossed my thoughts first and closest to my heart…that was FASHION, LIFE & MOTHERHOOD..( If you happen to read them…well…God save you…its a “khichdi”..as we Indians say)

So cheers to My son that I could come up with something meaningful other than my home & work life! And to deep dive into My love for Fashion…Mwahh…

The toughest thing to do after you become a mother is to dress up, dress up well…When at home I was a “one of the boobs out of my shirt always” mom! And then grabbing anything to wear when getting ready for office. Always short of time…not wanting to spend time on thinking about clothes.. Whenever shopping it’s always baby stuff on mind…If you think of dressing up, the baby poops …The list can go on & on…

Though I was in the happiest mode of life with the arrival of my bundle of joy ; Somewhere deep inside I was missing my Fashionista Self! My preggers days were fashionable too…so what happened to me now???…I kept thinking if I was really happy from within …I surely love my child..nothing gives me a greater sense of satisfaction, love, belonging than him..but I wanted to love myself too! Without feeling guilty…without being over whelmed with the suggestions & advises on how to keep my baby well, how to take care of him, who should be my priority, how will I attain the highest space in  ladder of motherhood by sacrificing myself…

So after months of initial struggle I finally could break my own created shell and started dressing up the way I used to, I love to!! And bonus was being able to dress up #mylittleman #mymunchkin fashionably as well!! Brownie motivation for me…

So would like to share some simple tips on young & fresh moms on dressing up:

1. Keep it simple, slip in a nice dress – always works with the little baby bump left too

2. Tie your hair in a bun so it doesn’t bothers your child, is hygienic & you can look super stylish too

3. Wear wedges I/o of heels!! Believe me with a baby in your arms you definitely need a more stable solid footwear to keep your stable & stylish

Be inspired, Be Stylish!! 

Love, Sujata πŸ’•

#fashion # motherhood #life #love #style

Another attempt to blog..another attempt to live life fashionably!!Β 

For me living life means…living fashionably! 

You cannot be a dull soul…if you feel dull inside, wear an even brighter color than usual to uplift yourself and your surroundings.

I see people who have lots of struggles to meet daily and yet when they cross my path..they inspire me! They inspire me fashionably as well as spiritually…

If I am sad or unhappy or in not in the best of my moods…am feeling that the world is running in the opposite direction of mine..the first thing I do is Dress up “for myself” ; put some Makeup again “for myself” ; and then am all set to face the world..all “by myself”…!!

So ladies & gentlemen, get up, get ready and get started. 

Tip of the day –A dash of red in your clothes will keep you happy & make you feel sexy all day long! πŸ’•

Love, 

Sujata 

Is this really my first blog…??!! Thoughts aren’t…

Since it’s my official first blog would like to introduce myself before sharing the thoughts and motivation  and the aspirations to reach this platform. 

Am Sujata , Indian, Bengali by language , married, mother of a 2.5 yr lo,a fashion merchandiser by the day, and a social media enthusiast post 12.oo am when my lil munchkin finally sleeps. 

Why I need to be here..writing… entering the world of blogs…well the reasons I think are:

1. I love writing, expressing myself through easy going write ups exclusively for myself..locked in my lil diaries (grammatical not strong I guess, so I say easy going write ups). Finally I thought let’s try sharing my thoughts with others…see their reaction. Doesn’t seemed harmful

2. Guess I love multitasking like all other ladies out here! Relation ship work + office work… hasn’t been able to satisfy my inner self and is pushing me to do something more

3.  Something for myself only

4. Want to talk about relationships, feelings & FASHION here! 

5. Fashion makes me a chameleon…a women with it instantly feels like a Diva!! It does the same to me & even more I guess….

See you all in my world ..where am the Boss & the follower both. Where am the love & the lover both. Where am the creator and the creation both. 

See you all soon…

Love, 

Sujata