What’s the definition of a good mother? Who has defined what an ideal mother should be like? Am I one of those good & ideal mom’s the world admires ??
Well why do we mom’s even need to think about all these questions? Is it because I feel am being judged all the time! Think so yes… I feel a section of society or few from even my family take me by doubt if I think what to wear today or take 10 mins extra to put on my make up?
Do you love your baby…Yes, ofcourse ..I do!! Why are you even asking me…
Do you love fashion…Yes, I do!!
But how can you be 200% “The Mommy” if you aren’t thinking about your baby, his food, his routine…blah..blah..and stopping at your wardrobe thinking about which clothes to wear for work tomorrow!
The world wants the mothers to be on their toes all the time either taking care of the babies, or cooking, or cleaning, or taking care of seniors, or … basically is busy doing something for others rather than herself!!…ugghh..stupid! Well I had to grow up and grow out of this…AND so should you girl!!
Am a working mom and besides being the best mom in the world I have to prove myself the best at my job as well…Fashion derives my passion! Whichever job you maybe in but you can’t look like as if you are disinterested and coming to your job is just a.. you know.. routine thing…or you have any less interest in your job than your colleagues…
So you got to get up and take notice of yourself…stare yourself in the mirror and see if you wish to change anything…
Your baby is in love with you already…he doesn’t wants his mom to be loving him w/o loving herself. Just plan your day in such a way that you can take out some time for yourself, keep yourself motivated, pray or meditate for a while, exercise regularly even if for 10 mins, eat healthy, dress well. Your baby is the magic you created and you can keep him as happy as you feel from within!!
As I always say, keep it simple yet stylish!!
How & What I am wearing :
1) Wear on your basic jeggings @only with a comfy crop top @forever21 ; comfy all day long ballerina from @H&M and put on a biker jacket 100% leather to give yourself that edge at your workplace
2) Slip in a nice knee length dress, make sure the fit is right. {In case of bulges please workout and wear those aweful uncomfortable shapewears…} Accessories to add on will be your shades, watch, statement earrings, ring, bag and wedge heels for comfort
3) Patterned printed stretchable pants and w/o sleeves ivory silk shirt with Chinese collar from @vanhausen . Throw on a blazer to get that semi formal office look. Again wedge heels for comfort and hair bun for fun!!
Stay inspired, Stay stylish!!
Love, Sujata π
In answer to your question, the answer would be fabulously YES π Harlon
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Haha.. thanks!!
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Great post- agree- you should definitely make sure you love yourself- love the outfits! π
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Thanks a lot!! Loving yourself is the best thing you can do to yourself…
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You’re welcome! Absolutely!
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Thanks for following my blog, good to connect with you and check your fashion. It is good to see you playing the role of a mother and stylist simultaneously and doing well, Stay blessed.
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Thanks Subhash! Bengalis rock..what say..
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Thanks so true π
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That’s so true π
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Gorgeous outfit !!!
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Thanks babes!!
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Totally with you!! One has to love oneself. Children model after parents and a healthy esteem in mom models the same in kids!!
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So true… parents have to bring that positivity to the kids..
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You are so beautiful. And YES, very fashionable!
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Aww… thanks!!
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My Pleasure ππ
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Yes she can. Looking great.
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Thanks a lot!!
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You’re welcome.
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Loving all of this!!
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http://Www.fashionnotfear.wordpress.com
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Aww..thank you!
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Thanks π
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You gotta be you! You model for your child how to be an adult, so being a put together mom who’s comfortable being herself is never a bad thing. Love those last two outfits too!
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So true and this is what I believe in.. thanks!!
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You’re a fabulous mom with a fabulous style βΊ great fashion tips!
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Am so glad you liked it!! π
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Thank you so much darling. How old is your child..are you a new mommy too?
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She’ll be 10 weeks tomorrow! Yes I’m a new mom tooβΊ. Parenthood is hard.
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Aww…so cute! My son turned 3 this December. Parenthood I agree is hard…but this is the most fulfilling feelings in the whole wide world. Am sure you will enjoy it a lot..π lots of love to you and your little angel.
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Thanks!
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Yes yes yes!!!!
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β£οΈ π
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Anddd.. following. I love your energy and how you empower mothers to not abandon their selves trying to live up to the expectations of others. It seems no matter what you do people will find something to judge you for so in the end we mind as well look good while they do so lol great post!!
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Glad! Be yourself… cheers to us! Cheers to womanhood..
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Of course you can be a good mom! that’s not even a question! Trust yourself and know that you’re good enough xo
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Thanks Cheila!
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