Birthday Letter to My Baby! Happy 3rd Devansh…πŸŽŠπŸ’πŸŽ‚πŸ₯‚πŸŽ‰

Dear Devansh, (Hi Baby)
Its feels so amazing and unreal at the very same time…you are turning 3 and so am I as a mother!! Feels like just the other day I had you in my arms… like a soft cuddly cotton ball for the 1st time in my hospital bed. The feeling The love The excitement..all is so fresh in our hearts and memories. You have made my life so beautiful..our little world so full of life!

There’s nothing in the world more previous than you..your hugs..your smile..You complete me baby! After marrying your father I always told him that he completes me, until one day I had you…I had never felt such a feeling of completeness from within, the feeling to protect someone, wanting to always be around.. take care off, cuddle, love, kiss ( which you might say to stop in coming few years) You complete US. 

A moment earlier we were celebrating the fact that you were standing..walking.. babbling the first words..had teeth..And look at you now! Monkey!! A chatter box!! Jumping jack!! … repeating everything we say.. giving everyone around directions as what to say or do to you. Climbing to the highest sofa points and jumping from there…making us nervous all the time. Being a boy…

Your love for alphabets & numbers is unmatched. For us you are a genius…you were reading and  writing alphabets/ numbers since you were an infant. Cars, TV, toys aren’t your thing…all you want is either your tab to look at nursery rhymes videos or write and play those educational applications or your writing boards. You make your Talking Tom’s & Talking Ben’s & Talking Ginger’s repeat rhymes, alphabets and numbers after you..they are your friends. You are writing words like “dolphin”, “eight” as if they are nothing. You are giving me language learning goals #You write and read numbers in Spanish??!! You are telling me planets name…!! I haven’t taught you this..YOU TUBE has…Your love for dogs & cats is pushing me to get you a pet soon. 

Few days ago it hit me that how independent you have become. I was leaving for office and you said “Bye Mumma” I/o wanted to stop me as usual. You now understand maybe that this lady is coming back to me anyhow..and have therefore learnt staying happy even w/o me…this is hard to accept as a mom. Its hard on me. Why do you have to grow so fast!? 

No matter how hard the day wad, you would always lighten it up with your smile. you are by motivation to keep going on.. being strong. You have filled our life with joy and laughter. Am grateful and thank God each day for this amazingly beautiful child he has gifted me with. You made me the happiest mom in the world! 

Happy 3rd Birthday Bhutts…I love you! Mwahh..πŸ’ž

Love,

Mumma πŸ’•

“Aww…”has to be my Favorite word & emotion..!! What’s yours? Share here…

Awww…my baby!! Aww…thats such a sexy piece… I need it in my wardrobe!! Aww….you all are just so sweet guys!! Aww…that’s so beautiful…! Aww…I don’t believe that this just happened to me….

Above is how am in my life! Full of Aww ‘s…πŸ’•

The biggest two aww moments in my life are (1) My Marriage (2) My Motherhood…I LOVE my babies to and from the bottom/ core of my heart! (Husband = A big baby) πŸ’–πŸ‘£πŸ’

 I never got my dream boyfriend which I wanted for the longest time in my early twenties!! Finally I decided to agree to the idea of arranged marriages. Luckily I found love there… lots of it!! I guess like all girls, getting married was making me anxious..leaving my mom, bro, home all behind was big for me ; I was preparing myself to adjust myself into a new family, relationships, new family rules, etc . But I was definitely looking forward to becoming someone’s life partner, sharing love and food… Excitement and hope of having lots of laughs & sex together (guess my favorite part ❣️)…so overall it was a bag of mixed emotions. 

Then after 5 years we were ready to go to the next level..so the baby was planned and by God’s grace our son arrived in the next 9 months!! What a planning 😎 The moment I had this 3.7kg tiny little life in my hands, I knew that in my life from here on I can’t love anyone or anything more than this soul in this world!!  πŸ‘Ά To join back work after I had my baby was one of the toughest emotional battle I fought with myself.. actually …this emotion was even more stronger than the anxiousness of getting married and the thought of leaving your family
I don’t enjoy my work now as I did earlier… all I want now is run back straight home after work… cuddle & laugh & play with my bundle of joy!! Motherhood gave me something else… Something what words fail to explain..Happiness, a sense of achievement, an excitement, a hope , a belief and believe me much more that that…which possibly can’t be explained. Its something which you can only experience…as a parent…as a mother!

We all have our love and weaknesses for somebody on this earth…could be anyone for you!! The one for whom our hearts beat or could even miss a beat…

Whoever you love in this world, just make sure it’s always from the heart..don’t try to show anything to the world . It should be just for the two of you..to feel, to believe, to fall upon..Even if distances are more ,  try and not miss that one thing in your relationship which you both couldn’t live without at one time..

Keep loving & spreading love all round you, be hopeful, be patient, be adorable

Share you story with me here…let’s share and celebrate the loves of our very being…
Love, Sujata πŸ’•

I have nothing to WrItE BUT I will…and you must ReAd…

Why am I writing here when I have nothing specific to share!!?? Why am I trying to think..think hard…what am I trying to think??!!        Is it about life..my life..your life…about my child’s future life… strange…Donn know what.! Seriously!!  But exactly that’s the thought…does it happens to you..!? Am sure it does…we all keep thinking, keep our brains busy almost all the time. Thinking about what to do next, or why did we did something in the past…Our thoughts keep wandering without any anchor and we just don’t know where to pull ourselves back or put a stop on our brainless use of our own brains…

Somekind of passion, somekind of craziness….my stupid heart is talking about all these hundreds of things to me …

What’s the fun in talking sense always…its good to just flow in your thoughts and come to no exact conclusions… thinking about your past & present failures and successes with life, love, marriage, relationships, academics, work life, expectations, parents, affairs, bosses, crushes, travels, what I could have shopped that day, the street side vendor, my maid’s kids, an Ambani’s life, Shahrukh Khan, Branjila’s divorce, anything…

Believe me it will refresh you in a new way..

Goodnight peeps. Sleep tight, dream well..& those who are starting their day, rise and shine..be radiant ..like always. Remember “You are better than your competition…”

Love, Sujata πŸ’•

P.S. Thanks to my baby who slept well on time today & my husband who’s surprise presentation preparation at office today gave me this ME time with myself..and now I will sleep tight..sleep light …

Inhibitions of a bikini wearing “Mom body”….πŸ‘™πŸ’„πŸ‘’πŸ³πŸ– #motherhood, #fashion, #love, #life

Being an Indian, wearing bikini on pools & beaches is still a taboo.! We  (Indians) still go on beach vacations and look for white skinned bikini wearing ladies …Men for obvious reasons & for ladies; they take them as the next level of our holiday goals!!

Our Indian men are still not comfortable entirely in having their moms, wife’s, sisters around them in this wonderful piece of clothing. Its still the “sexy” thing for them…

Am fortunate to not have a husband or a brother or a father like that!! Thank Goodness!! πŸ’• But the above is not the point am trying to make through this post. My reason of writing this post is to entirely help & elevate all the co-moms here…who struggle to come back to shape after having a baby and still want to wear her bikini !! Am here to push them to let down her inhibitions and completely love herself and her body after delivering the miracle of their lives…πŸ‘Άβ€

In the pictures am on my holiday in Thailand, Phuket with my husband & baby (baby then 1 yr 2 months old,  is sleeping, great!)….where I dared to wore the bikini with not being in the perfect bikini shape….I loved my MoM shaped body and just wanted to enjoy and relax and have some fun!!

This bikini I wore in various ways and pictures will show them to you for inspiration. 

1. I wore it with a crochet shift dress on top of it. Statement shades increase the glamour quotient #rayban 

2. My other look was with wearing a flowery float printed kaftan over this.. Add some chunky jewelry to complete the look..#accessorize neckpiece #guess shades #monsoon kaftan 

3. I always promote hair buns for we MoMs

You can create your very own look and be fashion ahead..

So bring out your favourite bikini from the closet and flaunt your perfect or NoT so perfect mommy body! Who cares…??!!

Enjoy the sun ladies..! Be Inspired!!

Love,

Sujata πŸ’•

Life of Fashionista Mother! πŸ’ž #fashion Β #motherhood #love #life

I started writing blogs because of my 2.5 year old son & my love for fashion. They are my reasons. While I would put him to sleep daily night singing lullabies I would often think what after this. ..and ended up on social networking sites just browsing crap.

He generally dozes off by 10ish and I can’t sleep before 11.30 ( old habits die hard) !!…So springed the idea of writing something in this “ME” time…My journey began with Google, looking for apt answers for my questions…

– What are blogs ? (Complete world is either busy writing or reading one)

– How are they written? (Since I left creative writing ever since left school)

– Who reads them? (I never did earlier if not promoted by my friends, until I got my own blog started)

Finally I gathered myself and wrote something about that crossed my thoughts first and closest to my heart…that was FASHION, LIFE & MOTHERHOOD..( If you happen to read them…well…God save you…its a “khichdi”..as we Indians say)

So cheers to My son that I could come up with something meaningful other than my home & work life! And to deep dive into My love for Fashion…Mwahh…

The toughest thing to do after you become a mother is to dress up, dress up well…When at home I was a “one of the boobs out of my shirt always” mom! And then grabbing anything to wear when getting ready for office. Always short of time…not wanting to spend time on thinking about clothes.. Whenever shopping it’s always baby stuff on mind…If you think of dressing up, the baby poops …The list can go on & on…

Though I was in the happiest mode of life with the arrival of my bundle of joy ; Somewhere deep inside I was missing my Fashionista Self! My preggers days were fashionable too…so what happened to me now???…I kept thinking if I was really happy from within …I surely love my child..nothing gives me a greater sense of satisfaction, love, belonging than him..but I wanted to love myself too! Without feeling guilty…without being over whelmed with the suggestions & advises on how to keep my baby well, how to take care of him, who should be my priority, how will I attain the highest space in  ladder of motherhood by sacrificing myself…

So after months of initial struggle I finally could break my own created shell and started dressing up the way I used to, I love to!! And bonus was being able to dress up #mylittleman #mymunchkin fashionably as well!! Brownie motivation for me…

So would like to share some simple tips on young & fresh moms on dressing up:

1. Keep it simple, slip in a nice dress – always works with the little baby bump left too

2. Tie your hair in a bun so it doesn’t bothers your child, is hygienic & you can look super stylish too

3. Wear wedges I/o of heels!! Believe me with a baby in your arms you definitely need a more stable solid footwear to keep your stable & stylish

Be inspired, Be Stylish!! 

Love, Sujata πŸ’•

#fashion # motherhood #life #love #style

Another attempt to blog..another attempt to live life fashionably!!Β 

For me living life means…living fashionably! 

You cannot be a dull soul…if you feel dull inside, wear an even brighter color than usual to uplift yourself and your surroundings.

I see people who have lots of struggles to meet daily and yet when they cross my path..they inspire me! They inspire me fashionably as well as spiritually…

If I am sad or unhappy or in not in the best of my moods…am feeling that the world is running in the opposite direction of mine..the first thing I do is Dress up “for myself” ; put some Makeup again “for myself” ; and then am all set to face the world..all “by myself”…!!

So ladies & gentlemen, get up, get ready and get started. 

Tip of the day –A dash of red in your clothes will keep you happy & make you feel sexy all day long! πŸ’•

Love, 

Sujata 

Is this really my first blog…??!! Thoughts aren’t…

Since it’s my official first blog would like to introduce myself before sharing the thoughts and motivation  and the aspirations to reach this platform. 

Am Sujata , Indian, Bengali by language , married, mother of a 2.5 yr lo,a fashion merchandiser by the day, and a social media enthusiast post 12.oo am when my lil munchkin finally sleeps. 

Why I need to be here..writing… entering the world of blogs…well the reasons I think are:

1. I love writing, expressing myself through easy going write ups exclusively for myself..locked in my lil diaries (grammatical not strong I guess, so I say easy going write ups). Finally I thought let’s try sharing my thoughts with others…see their reaction. Doesn’t seemed harmful

2. Guess I love multitasking like all other ladies out here! Relation ship work + office work… hasn’t been able to satisfy my inner self and is pushing me to do something more

3.  Something for myself only

4. Want to talk about relationships, feelings & FASHION here! 

5. Fashion makes me a chameleon…a women with it instantly feels like a Diva!! It does the same to me & even more I guess….

See you all in my world ..where am the Boss & the follower both. Where am the love & the lover both. Where am the creator and the creation both. 

See you all soon…

Love, 

Sujata